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Q. Why did he say he was going to call and he didn't?

A. There is this law that he can't seem needy and completely available. C'mon, you know it excites you a little more right? Makes you want him a little more. If you think I'm lying and retarded, you're the one who wrote me. If it's been more than 2 days, then, yikes! He didn't even want to keep you around for a booty call... or maybe you already give it up...  you did ... didn't you... oh well.. now you know why.

Q. I keep trying to give her freedom but she ends up taking advantge of it. Now what?

A. Obviously, it comes down to respect. She doesn't respect you. If you don't atleast have a serious talk like now, then you are doomed. If you make excuses then you are getting exactly what you deserve. People show you as much respect as you allow them too. If you don't respect yourself enough to say, I don't deserve this, why would anyone else. Besides, anyone taking advantage of you that badly, they are not worth keeping because they do not have your best interest at heart. Dump her! Move on. Or don't and stop complaining.

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